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Archived: Destra Looking Forward to More Babies and Compares Critics To Family
The Queen Of Bacchanal has no qualms about being a mommy for a second time when the occasion arises. She gave ETCETERABUZZ the insight into her life, in a recent chat that even heard her speak of local critics to her music and style. Destra Garcia’s been in the game for years and she’s got the backbone to deal with anything thrown at her, it would seem. One thing she doesn’t take for granted however is her relationship with her baby girl Xaiya, her one and only daughter with her music manager and main squeeze, Brian.
Xaiya has graduated from nursery school. Her mom made sure she made it to the event.
Earlier this month, Garcia proved that she would break down any barrier to make it to Xaiya’s special occasions. She had been out of T&T, performing up the islands and had to make the trip back to attend Xaiya’s nursery school graduation. Based on the details she gave, it was no easy feat making it back in time- the artiste even saying that she hadn’t gotten to glam up, but regardless, she had made it in time!
Riding solidly in the past few months with new singles released, Destra’s balancing career and motherhood well. She’s been touring the caribbean and internationally, posting images of herself every step of the way but amid even that, she’s been thinking of baby #2.
No, Destra is not pregnant but she has no problem becoming a mom for a second time, she says. In fact, she anticipates it. “Of course! Of course!,” exclaimed Garcia when asked if she has plans to expand her family. She said she’s from a big family, having grown up with her three siblings and an extended family of cousins and other relatives, and a such, she’s so inclined. The soca queen also admitted that her little one often gets lonely, despite her love for creative activities so in time, she’ll work on getting Xaiya some company!
She is the Queen of Bacchanal!
On the issue of her local critics, Destra Garcia says she welcomes the truth, adding that she views local critics much like she views the criticism offered by her family members. “When you’re a younger artiste coming up, you wouldn’t understand and you’d be a little hasty because to you it’s all rainbows and candy and you’re looking for that approval,” said Garcia. She went on to explain that she views the local criticism as if it were her family at home, critiquing her outfit before she steps out of the house. “Yuh would want to hear it home first, before yuh go outside and somebody else say it,” she rationalized. “I try to weed out the constructive criticism from the crap,” admitted Garcia. “Sometimes you have to figure out if it’s the loving sister who has your back or if it’s the jealous cousin who doesn’t like you,” she advised. Destra said ‘at home’ criticism is pretty normal, explaining that Antiguans would be critical of their artistes and people in Barbados would be equally critical of their local stars. Her advice to artistes generally- “surround yourself with people you trust and before you even do anything, you’ll get the right advice.”
For more on Destra Garcia, check out her Instagram page @destragarcia and of course, look her up on Facebook and Twitter as well.
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Destra Delivers Powerfully at Reflections.
“If this sharing that I’m doing touches anyone, I’m truly grateful. None of us are perfect. Some days you’ll feel good, some days you won’t, but it’s all part of the journey. Sometimes what you’re looking for is right on the horizon, and the moment you give up, you miss it. If my testimony makes anyone feel something, then my work here is done.” – DESTRA GARCIA
Trinidad and Tobago received a musical showcase of spiritual awakening yet again this past Saturday, at Destra’s ‘Reflections: Sound. Spirit. Surrender.” The event took place at Queen’s Hall, St. Ann’s and proved to be a truly inspiring and uplifting musical experience.
From the onset, the show set a standard that fans of good music with powerful lyrics, would rave about for weeks. David Rudder – a cultural icon of Calypso music out of Trinidad and Tobago, welcomed the audience as he hit the stage first delivering the very fitting, ‘High Mas.’ It was a powerful blessing no doubt – something that would lead into a seamless spiritual production. He was subsequently joined on stage by Destra, something that created a full-circle moment that drew immediate emotion from the audience.
Known for her unmistakeable vocal ability, Destra took her audience on a carefully curated musical journey, opening her set with Free Again before transitioning into slowed-down, soul-stirring renditions of some of her most beloved songs, including Love Somebody and Fly and with each performance, she revealed a different layer of her artistry, offering vulnerability, reflection, and strength.
One of the night’s most touching highlights came as Garcia shared the stage with her daughter, Xaiya, for a heartfelt duet of The Prayer. Beginning at the piano, Xaiya gently set the tone before joining her mother in song, creating an intimate moment that resonated deeply with the audience.
The production, which was creatively directed by Zara Bartels and Isoke Edwards, also showcased the incredible talent of father and son pan duo Martin and De’jean Cain as well as the Maria Regina Grade School and St. Joseph’s Convent Port- of- Spain choirs, whose vibrant and polished performances brought a refreshing, youthful energy to the stage. Gospel artiste, Nisa joined Garcia for a powerful duet of Bridge Over Troubled Water. She also performed her original composition Make Me Over, adding another layer of spiritual depth to the evening.
As the show built toward its finale, Garcia delivered a commanding rendition of Ella Andall’s Bring Down the Power, followed by classic hymns including A Little More Oil in My Lamp. This climactic segment was elevated by the presence of traditional belle dancers and African drummers, creating a rich, cultural fusion that brought the audience to its feet. Beyond the performances, the overall production, brought to life through Bridgette Wilson’s choreography and Atiba Borde’s costuming, stood out for its seamless execution, immersive ambience, and thoughtful storytelling, reinforcing Reflections as more than just a concert, but a transformative experience.
Reflections certainly delivered a powerful blend of music, filled with deep messages and meaning. In what is a very spiritual season, Destra, through the delivery of ‘Reflections,’ has carved out a space for inspiration and connection within Trinidad and Tobago’s cultural landscape – something that many would agree, is a necessity more than an option.
